New beginnings

Heidi's last day at MGIC is today.  I'm so excited for her!  A promotion, working closer to home, and being in a growing environment is what she deserves.  I've never been one to settle and I'm glad that my sister isn't one to either.  We only get ONE life to live.  Why waste it on anything but the best?  I'm sad today though.  I  remember a wise co-worker once told me that it's sometimes worse for the ones that are left.  Hopefully I'll have a new beginning soon.  To cheer me up, my sister got me another orchid.  When I first joined the department about 3 years ago, she gave me an orchid.  It ended up getting poisoned and died.  I actually think someone here was pouring there leftover crap in it.  I know it's weird but there are a bunch of weirdos at my work.  I hope I can give my new orchid a new home because pretty orchids deserve a new beginning.

I finally got a haircut!  I needed to so badly.  All the Mom's out there understand, sometimes life gets so busy we forget about ourselves.  After having Silas I must admit I've let a lot of things go.  Now that it's nice out and summer is coming, I hope to get things back where they should be.  The new haircut is a start.  I also donated it to Locks of Love.  You only need 10 inches but I did 11 inches because it's my favorite number and I can give a little more :)  Sorry I don't have a before picture but my hair was so long it was getting caught in like doorways, the sink while washing dishes and of course in Silas's hands.  And the shower.  Nick and I tackled the shower drain last week.  It was like taking out a nest of mice, so disgusting.  I feel so much lighter and am happy to use less conditioner!  The next thing I need is a pedicure...I definitely won't take a before picture of that either.

Speaking of new beginnings, I'm so excited to experience all the new things with Silas this summer.  This past weekend was the first time he touched grass.  I can't wait to go swimming with him, swing on the swing, hiking, and I'm sure we'll find many more activities to do for the first time together!  I will make sure to dress him appropriately unlike his outfit on Sunday.  Totally my fault, I didn't think we were going anywhere and I just threw the Christmas sleeper on!  At least he doesn't know the difference yet.

I try to make up for it with other things like dressing him as a Giraffe for his 6-month pics.  I ordered a canvas and it arrived last week.  It's really cool, now we just have to find the perfect spot to hang it!

Laminate Floors

In January, a little over 4 years ago, I went to look at the condo.  I remember sitting in the family room trying to envision living there.  The carpet was new, the walls were white, and the fixtures were gold and outdated.  My Dad and I spent months painting, replacing the fixtures and baseboards.  I finally moved in sometime around April.  It was very quiet and very clean.  The stove didn't get used much, mostly just the microwave and toaster oven.  I was pretty happy and comfortable.  A couple years later I met Nick and he moved in quicker than I did!  Seriously it was like 1 month.  Then we had baby Silas.  I'm still pretty happy and comfortable.  Our stove gets used every night.  Our refrigerator has more than just butter and coffee creamer in.  And our new carpet isn't looking so new anymore.  This has led to getting laminate floors.  I couldn't wait to get rid of the 'dirty' carpet and ugly linoleum.  With us not sure of when we'll make our next move we felt that getting laminate floors will be the most inexpensive way to provide a clean crawling area for Silas and keep me happy.  I'll admit, I complained about the carpet all the time and I was pretty obsessed with using the carpet cleaner.  Or I should say having Nick use the carpet cleaner :)  

So a few weeks ago we bought the flooring from Menards and by the next weekend it was in.  Nick, his Dad and brother Vince got it done in 1 1/2 days!!  I love it.  Below are pics:

Before - Kitchen

Before - Family Room

Before - Family Room/Kitchen

Before - Hallway

Before - Silas's Room

Demolition!

Chipped tile

Moisture barrier and padding

Almost finished - Silas Room

Almost finished - Family Room/Kitchen

Almost finished - Family Room/Kitchen

Hallway

After - Silas's Room

After - Hallway

After - Family Room

After - Kitchen

After - Kitchen

Being Sick

Being sick sucks, but it even sucks more when you and your kids are sick.  This past winter has been the worst winter I have ever experienced with being sick.  And everything I got, Silas got, and vice-versa.  We've been hit with the stomach flu, regular flu, cold, ear-infection, bronchialitis, coughing, sneezing, fevers, you name it.  We have taken many trips to the Dr. lately but that's ok because when we go there they usually give us samples of Silas's formula.  Every little bit helps.  Here is Silas getting the albuterol treatment.  It sucks because he usually cries the whole time.  The advantage to crying is it takes less time for him to inhale it.  This go around he wasn't crying much and the treatment took a lot longer.  This is probably the only case besides when he was born that I'm ok with him crying.

So after all the sickness and medication, I'm happy to report that we are all better, for the most part.  We are still using the inhaler on Silas (sometimes I take a puff too) and this has seemed to really help his wheezing.  I also have this new device that I recommend to all Mom's and Dad's.  It seems kinda gross but it works so well.  The NoseFrida uses your own suction to take out the boogies.  There is a filter so you won't suck anything up.  I use it almost daily on Silas and I get those boogers out every time.  Nick helps me hold him down while I suck them out.  Sometimes it looks like I'm sucking his brains out with the way he moves around and his eyes go goofy but once we're done he can breathe better and we have gotten rid of those booger germs.  I picked it up at BuyBuyBaby.

The last few weeks Jellie (Ellie & Jack) have been coming over more often for dinner.  It's so fun having them over and Silas loves it.  Jellie is so sweet to him.  Ellie will hold his bottle and help feed him.  Jack will give him a toy or find his nukie when he's crying.  Don't get me wrong, there are plenty of situations where Jellie will take toys away from him, throw something, or try to poke, pinch, punch, or sit on him.  It's normal and although it makes me uneasy at times it's kinda cool because they act just like siblings.  I'm so happy that he has cousins that he will be close with. I can already tell he looks up to Ellie.  He is always watching her.  It will be fun when baby # 3 arrives and Silas can be a 'big' cousin.  

Easter 2013

Since my last post things have been crazy busy.  We had a fun Easter at Heidi's for brunch.  We watched Ellie and Jack look for eggs.  Jack is so good at finding them!  I'm excited to do this next year with Silas.  It's cool that Jack is pretty much 1-year older than Silas.  He has gotten so many nice 'hand-me-downs' which has helped Nick and I out while we get used to how much kids can cost!  Another neat thing about Jack being 1-year older is I get an insight on how Silas will be a year from now.  Jack loves to take his shoes and socks off, but then they get lost.  The other day I was telling Nick that we have to begin preparing ourselves for when Silas starts wearing 'normal' clothes.  He will be for sure taking his shoes and socks off just like Jack!  Silas typically wears one-piece sleepers all the time but ever since Easter when I dressed him in regular clothes I'm thinking we should do this more often mostly because he looks so cute.  Anyway it's getting warmer out and those sleepers get hot so we should be seeing Silas in regular clothes more often.  Here we are on Easter in our 'normal' clothes.

 After brunch we played with Ellie's new Hello Kitty car toy.  This year I decided to skip on the candy and just get a couple cool toys that we could play with.  Silas loved the car!

Exhausted from the morning festivities, Silas took a nap.  I think it's cute how he always sleeps on his side with his arm up.

After Heidi's we spent Easter with Nick's family at his parents house.  As usual the food was great, we both got to catch up with some of his family we don't see very often, and we both got to sit back and watch the kids be kids.  Silas loves watching and a lot of action.  By the time we were ready to leave, Silas was already falling asleep in my arms.  It was a perfect Easter!

Ice Cream, Mac N' Cheese, Chocolate Milk

I had quite the scare this week.  I look forward to Monday's because it's my day off and I get to be with Silas all day.  This past Monday we had no appointments, no scheduled phone calls, nothing going on.  I was really looking forward to just hanging out with my baby.  I decided that it would be a good idea to begin the transition to a formula that is dairy-based.  The Dr. suggested we do this after he turned 6-months.  Silas is over 7-months old now so I thought I would finally do it.  So I bought some Gerber 'Soothe' formula.  I mixed his carrots and oatmeal like I normally do.  I even prepared his pears because he seemed a little fussy (teething).  He loves the cold pears on his gums.  I began to feed him and he just didn't seem interested in eating.  So I gave him the bottle which contained 2 scoops of his old stuff and 1 scoop of the new Gerber.  He gobbled those 6-ounces down so quick!  After he was finished I was cleaning him up and he began to throw up.  Violently throw up.  It was so bad I was pulling the phlegm out of his mouth and holding him upside down to get it all out.  This happened several times.  He was having a hard time breathing because he kept throwing up.  I thought he was done so we went into the bathroom to get cleaned up.  He threw up more.  I began to take his clothes off and he was all red.  He was getting a severe rash and his face was super red beginning to swell.  I was panicking at this point.  This all went down in 10 minutes.  I remember calling my Mom, Nick, and Heidi.  Heidi told me to call 911 so I did.  There were about 8 paramedics and 4 cops in the condo.  By this time Silas wasn't getting worse but was still in bad shape.  They hooked up his carrier to the stretcher, I jumped in the ambulance and we sat there for a few minutes while they tried to find a vein for the IV to give him Benadryl.  They couldn't find one so they began to drive to Children's.

Both Nick's met me there.  They put a little hospital gown on and gave him Benadryl orally.  He was already doing so much better.  I'm pretty sure he puked everything up and some.  Surprisingly we weren't there for a long time, we got discharged about 12:30 and had arrived around 10am.  Here's a picture of my baby laying in the hospital bed.  I put his own clothes on after we knew we were going home.

We saw his Pediatrician this week.  We're going to see an allergy specialist but basically Silas won't have any dairy until he is 1 years old.  I'm hoping he outgrows it.  I can't imagine a life without Ice Cream, Mac N' Cheese, and washing it all down with a big glass of Chocolate Milk.  On top of the allergic reaction, he has an ear infection and bronchialitis.  I'm pretty sure I have that too.  I've been sick since Sunday and it appears to have only gotten worse.  We'll see how I feel but I might have to see the Dr. tomorrow.  If I do this is probably what she'll say:

Besides the crazy week, we're looking forward to the weekend!  Nick and I are both off tomorrow.  Sunday will be nice to see his family for dinner and we'll do brunch at Heidi's.  HAPPY EASTER!

Taking Responsibility for Your Destiny

Lately I've been challenged at work.  It's not the depressed industry that I work in nor is it the actual work I do.  It's a few people that like to throw sand in the sand box.  For the last 10 years I have grown in my career and completed my education with a Bachelor and Masters degrees.  Somewhere in the last couple years I've ended up getting sand everywhere.  In my eyes, in my nose, and now in my ass crack.  We all know what that feels like and it sucks!  I can't understand why these people are throwing sand at me.  I think about it again and I remember that I don't care.  I have the ability to get up, run to the ocean, and wash off. A good friend of mine showed me this website:  http://www.dailyom.com/  It gives daily inspirations, and today's helped me remember that I do have control over what happens.  I'm super excited that my fate is in my own hands.
"Each and every day you have the opportunity to answer your own call and take action toward creating the life you want."
Happy Friday!

Silas - 6 months old!

I'm a couple weeks late in posting Silas's 6 month old couch picture but a lot has been going on!

• Silas got his 6-month pictures done by Amy.  I hope to post them soon.
• He slept through the night last Friday.
• He got his vaccinations on Saturday (he hasn't slept through the night since)
• He has been a little sick lately but for the most part his smiley self.
• He eats pears, sweet potato, carrots, oatmeal, and rice.
• He loves playing with his bottle after he's done eating.  
• No teeth yet, I felt last night.
• He rolls over a lot.
• He likes when I sing.
• He loves watching his Daddy make dinner.
• He likes to face-time with Ellie and Jack.

1 month

2 month

3 month

4 month

5 month

6 months!